釣った魚に餌はやらない．．．No more food for caught fish(?)
最近なぜか周りでよく「釣った魚に餌はやらない」について議論していました。
男の人から見れば『お得（？）』な風潮ですが、女の人にとっては男が嫌いになる要因のようです。
「結婚前に何でもやってくれる、いつもあわせてくれる、いつもやさしくしてくれるのに結婚してから別人みたいにつめたい～」と女の人からの言い分。
「結婚してから家族を養わかなければならないので忙しいんだよ。だから前みたいにできないのは当然だよ。いつもがんばっているのはお前と家族のためだけなのに分かってくれよ！」という男の人の言い分。
どっちも正しいそしてどっちも間違っていると僕は思います。
二人とも努力して理解しあって、そしてお互い大事にすればあんなことはないと思います。さらにお互いの信頼はとても大事だと思います。お互い楽しい時間を作ろうと努力しないと幸せな家族を築くことが難しいでしょう。
休日に一緒に料理を作ったり、たまに二人だけの時間を作ったりするのはひとつの例だと思います。しかし、お互いの欠点や過ちばっかり一所懸命思い出してそして家を裁判所みたいに誰が正しいだれが間違っているだけ求めるのは不幸の道をつくるだけだと思います。
One japanese sentence :: NO MORE FOOD FOR CAUGHT FISH
Japanese says "tsutta sakana ni esa ha yaranai".
It means no more food for caught fish.
It talks about man and woman. Before becoming couple boys tried so hard to please girls. But after getting married, man don't care so much about his wife. It is his wife is a COUGHT FISH. Girls always hate boys at this quality. If he wants someone to be lovers, he tries so hard to please her. He does everything for her, he listens all her words and her wish. But after she married him, he became like different person. It seems that, men in the world are the same (???).
Personally, I, of course, don't like this quality. I believe that there must be the way to make the love still fresh forever.
Even easy thing can cheer up love between husband and wife. For example, on holiday just spare time together by going out or at least cook together is one of the way. The communication is the most important. But if each of them just tries to find the other's mistake or bad habit, that is the way toward break out.
Anyway, the most important thing to choose partner is to choose the one who has simalar hobbies, the same concept of value, and of course the one whom you love more than he/she loves you. Please remember, after you marry someone, you will spend all your life's time with him/her. Devorce is not the good choice, because it is the injury you will never get rid of from your life!!!
男の人から見れば『お得（？）』な風潮ですが、女の人にとっては男が嫌いになる要因のようです。
「結婚前に何でもやってくれる、いつもあわせてくれる、いつもやさしくしてくれるのに結婚してから別人みたいにつめたい～」と女の人からの言い分。
「結婚してから家族を養わかなければならないので忙しいんだよ。だから前みたいにできないのは当然だよ。いつもがんばっているのはお前と家族のためだけなのに分かってくれよ！」という男の人の言い分。
どっちも正しいそしてどっちも間違っていると僕は思います。
二人とも努力して理解しあって、そしてお互い大事にすればあんなことはないと思います。さらにお互いの信頼はとても大事だと思います。お互い楽しい時間を作ろうと努力しないと幸せな家族を築くことが難しいでしょう。
休日に一緒に料理を作ったり、たまに二人だけの時間を作ったりするのはひとつの例だと思います。しかし、お互いの欠点や過ちばっかり一所懸命思い出してそして家を裁判所みたいに誰が正しいだれが間違っているだけ求めるのは不幸の道をつくるだけだと思います。
One japanese sentence :: NO MORE FOOD FOR CAUGHT FISH
Japanese says "tsutta sakana ni esa ha yaranai".
It means no more food for caught fish.
It talks about man and woman. Before becoming couple boys tried so hard to please girls. But after getting married, man don't care so much about his wife. It is his wife is a COUGHT FISH. Girls always hate boys at this quality. If he wants someone to be lovers, he tries so hard to please her. He does everything for her, he listens all her words and her wish. But after she married him, he became like different person. It seems that, men in the world are the same (???).
Personally, I, of course, don't like this quality. I believe that there must be the way to make the love still fresh forever.
Even easy thing can cheer up love between husband and wife. For example, on holiday just spare time together by going out or at least cook together is one of the way. The communication is the most important. But if each of them just tries to find the other's mistake or bad habit, that is the way toward break out.
Anyway, the most important thing to choose partner is to choose the one who has simalar hobbies, the same concept of value, and of course the one whom you love more than he/she loves you. Please remember, after you marry someone, you will spend all your life's time with him/her. Devorce is not the good choice, because it is the injury you will never get rid of from your life!!!
posted by hp @ 12/15/2006 07:29:00 pm
13 Comments:
Wow, a love advice! INteresting! This is a good example, most of the guys are mean, selfish and rude. That's the reason that i hate guys! I don't really get why teen like to have gf and bf during their study time and after they break up they just sit down and cry! What the advantage of love then?
>What is the advantage of love?
Well, I am not sure as well.
But whatever we do everyday, there must be the rank of priority. I mean we need to decide what is the first priority and what is the second and so on. I am not exactly against the love during study. If we make sure study is the first priority, there should be no problem, but if you take love as first priority then your bad effect from love will destroy study.
Talking about the advantage of love, for my opinion, it gives power to people. The guy want to make her happy, so he try to study hard, the guy may feel the responsibility then he try to be more mature and work hard and so on. So if WE MUST MAKE SURE THAT LOVE IS THE POWER FOR OTHER WORK it is not bad.
What subject are u study in Japan? Master degree for love profeser? cool, hehehehe just kidding te. Maybe its true i'm not sure too. Lets try! heheeheh
Hehehe, I don't specialized in love. Please try some day na!
Good luck,
どうして「釣る」のは男で、「釣られる」のは女なんだろう？逆、のような気がしないでもない…
「逃がした魚は大きい」って言葉もあるのよね。
ハハハ、「逃がした魚は大きい」！！！まさにその通りですね。自分の持っているものには満足しないのは男（人間？）の欲ですね。逆に満足してしまうと伸びないんだとかいう考えもありますが、僕はあれ程度満足したほうが幸せだと思います。ですから、「釣った魚は大きい」と思えるように生きたいですね。
ところで今は多忙のピークです。美和子さんの本を買いにいく時間をまだ取れそうもないですが、冬休みににその本に関するコメントは必ず出しますので楽しみにしてください。
なるほど。「釣った魚は大きい」ね。さすがです。私は、隣の水槽の魚が大きく見えちゃうタイプです…^^;)
本はいつでも時間のあるときに読んでください。そんな大した本じゃありませんが…コメントも、いつでもけっこうですよ。
あ、私です↑
Whats Up Hp
Those are some great advices for couples who are about to get married. My sister told me that you are one person that she enjoys alot taking advice from. I don't know how you come up with all these great advices, but continue what you do. It is a great quality you have.
Later For Now
Vuthy Kim
>みわこさん
たいしたもんですよ。今週末でもいけそうですので、早ければ来週にコメントできると思います。本当に僕は拝見するのを楽しみしています。ブログではあれだけ面白かったから、本になるともっと面白いじゃないかと。
>Vuthy
Oh, your sister? hahaha, she is cute. Anyway, I am not that great as you two said. Many people feel annoyed with my ideas.
Wish you good luck and happiness!
Hey! Hp you are a professional of love I think. This story is interesting. But any ghost stories for me. I would prefer to read ghost stories than love story. Hahah~~~ just kidding.
Ghost story? Hehehe, I have never met ghost, although I live alone. I will tell you when I met ghost na.
Pray for me to meet ghost soon tov, ok?
>Before becoming couple boys tried so hard to please girls. But after getting, man don't care so much about her...自分の持っているものには満足しない
Yeah i'm wondering y it's true for me that i like her so much at first, but after we close to each other, i can't just be satisfied with her. we quarrel many times, don'T know y.
「釣った魚は大きい」 that's the best phrase you ever think of that i should be.
(i like this blog)
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