卒業時期．．．Graduation season
今卒業時期ですね。ともにすごした友人や先輩たちが卒業して，就職したり，帰国したりします。
年々時間が急速にすごしている気がします。人は楽しい時間は「早い」と感じて、苦しい時間は「遅い」と感じますね。今月末に3人の先輩は就職し、2人の先輩は帰国します。寂しい気がします。人は出会ったり、別れたりするのは当然だと分かっていてもやっぱり別れは寂しい．．．しょうがないですね。
そして新しい出会いがやってくるでしょう。
時々こんなことを思い出します。人生って前方が見えませんね。明日何がやってくるか、どんなつらいことや楽しいことがあるかまったくわかりません。毎日当然のようにすごしてはいますが、よく考えるとたった1時間先のことさえ誰も100％予測できません。だったら、毎秒毎秒という人生の時間を大切にすべきですね。
今年僕の日常生活から5人の人が消えてゆく。もう会えないわけではないですが、めったに会うこともないでしょう。出会いの大切をすごく実感した瞬間です。一つ一つの出会いが僕の人生に刺激を与えてくれて、その出会いからいくつものことを学んで成長してきたのでしょう。
人は自分の道を歩きながら、気づかないうちに人に刺激を与えたり、人の鑑になったりしますね。人生って本当に面白い．．．と思いません？
Graduation season
It is graduation season here in japan. Some of my seniors start work, some of them go back home. From this april, I can't meet them often like what I used to be.
When we enjoy life, time goes so fast. But when we got stuck or have some problem the time goes so slowly. My seniors are not here anymore. I know, if there is meeting there must be parting. It is natural law. However, I just can't hold to feel lonely and sad. That's human's heart.
After this parting, new meeting will come. Life is something can't be predicted. We can't predict rightly the thing will come in even 1 hour. If so, why don't we take our every second of life as important moment as possible?
One more thing. I can feel the importance of meeting. I learnt a lot from everyone I knew. I grew up because of everyone I knew. They gave me encouragement, excitement, motivation and so on. Everyone walks his/her own way, but at the mean time, he/she gives so much motivation for other people without knowing that he/she is givin it out. Everyone is a mirror to me. What interesting life is!
posted by hp @ 3/14/2007 07:41:00 pm
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my sister is going to graducate on this March too and she invited family esp my mom and me to join her graducation ceremony but m difficult to make a decision whelther I go or not cos it affects my study!!! can you give me any advices hp? 50%of my mind I want to go cos it is my sister's day and also her great success in life. Moreover, I love n miss her very very very much cos I have never seem her for ages...but one thing is that it will affect my study if I decide to go. June is the season for me as well as other students to learn(cos it is a time for prepairing for 2nd semester exam).....
Oh Lyda!
So long not hear from you.
You are worrying about whether to go to join your sister or not?
Ok, let me give you some idea to consider.
Thinking about your sister:
She absolutely wants you to go. Studying abroad is so lonely. Graduation's day is the day all students' family join and celebrate. But for foreign students, it is hard to have their family join. Me too, I watched the japanese student enjoy their family taking pictures, receiving flowers and so on. But you know, I can only see, I don't have chance to receive any flowers or congratulation words from my parents on that day. I felt so lonely, but as it is impossible to bring them here, I could do nothing but accept the reality. I think that your sister is not so different from me. Especially, as she is a girl, she may need more warth from you all than I did.
Talking about your studies: It is your final year at high school. You have to work harder. Be absent from the school affects your studies more than ever. Different final exam result takes you to different way of life.
Talking about my opinion: If I were you, I will try my best to prepared for mid-term exam as much as I can, then I go to join my sister's graduation. I mean I will try to take both, though it is hard. But in our life, we have very little chance to make people happy. So if I can make my loved one happy, I am not hestitate to sacrify. Because I can't predict what will happen tomorrow.Hehehe.
This is just my opinion. I don't wish you to adopt this, but I wish you to take my opinion into consideration then make your own decision. Please remember that, only you can understand clearly your own situation.
Good luck,
That s life! By the way,when is ur turn for the graduation? just let me know in advance i might take vacation to go there for congrating hahaha i wish i could.
Oh, Socheat! Welcome here again.
My graduation?Hehehe, maybe soon hahaha. Anyway thanks for your kindness. I am happy to hear that. I think I' d better celebrate my graduation at Cambodia than in Japan so that many friends can cheer me up more.
Good luck,
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