言ってはいけない一言・・・Unacceptable phrase
最近自分の家族に向ける犯罪が多くなっています。親がエリート医者だから、息子がその重圧に耐えられず親に逆襲する事件が多いです。実は「何で自分の親や兄妹を殺せるの？」って不思議に思っていました。「でも、日本社会においては家族の絆がカンボジアと違うからありえるのかな」と自分を納得させてきましたが、今朝のテレビを見てこんないい話（？）が分かりました。
「言ってはいけない一言」ってあります。言われてみれば納得しますが、それが原因と最初から思いつかなかったです。
人は誰でも「言われてはいけない一言」があるそうです。確かにそうですね。僕の言われてはいけない一言って何といわれるとまだ思いつかないです。なんだろう？？？だって、人を殺したいほど許せないその一言を言われたことないです。でもきっとあると思います。
普段生活する中で、誰でもそんな言ってはいけない一言なんて考えたことがないでしょうね。僕自身はそうなんです。相手は絶対に言われたくない一言なんて今まで真剣に考えていませんでした。友達と冗談を言うときに、あまりその一言は相手にとって絶対許せない一言かどうか考えたことがありませんでした。時々冗談で怒られたことがありましたが、真剣に考えていませんでした。
こんなことを振り返ると、今から何かを言う前に真剣に考えないといけない気持ちになりました。
皆さん！自分の言われてはいけない一言はなんですか？言われるとその人を殺すほど絶対に言われたくない一言ですよ、教えてください！
Your unacceptable phrase
Recently, there are many crimes occured in japan. Husband killed wife, son killed mother or brother killed sister. Many of them occured among family.
In fact, the cause is the criminal was said an unacceptable word. For example, husband was said "your salary is cheap" by his wife, so he was so angry that he killed her.
There are many complicated thing in any crime that I can't mention here. But what I want to emphasize here is that, WHOEVER, THERE MUST BE UNACCEPTABLE WORDS FOR HIM/HER. That is the word that make him so angry that he can kill people who said that words to him.
In daily life, I like joking my friend so much. Some words made them angry with me, but I have never taken it so serious. I have never thought that those words are unacceptable or not for him/her. I guess some of you experienced the same problem as I did. But now, I think I should consider more when using words toward someone. Because the words might be unacceptable ones for the partner I am talking to.
How about you? What is your unacceptable words? The words that you don't want to be said the most, and if you were said you are so angry that you can kill that person?
posted by hp @ 1/10/2007 09:21:00 am
7 Comments:
Yeah, i used to upset a lot of people cuz i talked too much... and because of a sentense from my friend that talk to me also made our friendship sink! I mean we broke up! I agree, the way we talk is so important!
oh let me share u all my unacceptable phrase. i don wanna hear de words from s.o who said firmly but finally he/she doesn't respect what has been said! forget everything... dat hurts me de most! how abt others? share me pooh?
>pooh
Yeah, some unnessary words should not be spoken out because it may hurt someone. I also like joking and I hurt my friends many time. Just now, I feel regret.
>deedee
That's called betrayal. If one acts different from his/her words, it means he/she doesn't keep his/her words and that's betrayal, the one I hate the most.
hehe... betrayal! de one u hate de most. but sometime, v human donno ourselves too dat s.times v do some acts dat v hate de most without realize we're doin that... in some cases, it depends on de situation norh! :D
Yeah, sometimes people do bad thing without knowing that was wrong.
Please correct me if you found I was wrong na!
Good luck,
hahha... u r de prefect! only U can find others' mistakes. U can see de visions around u well.. u can criticize and correct then everything goes on smoothly na! u dunno? But ME, i cant do anything good at all as i am de everytime-mistake-maker! i cant do anything good to fulfill what others expect i can! m so poor and bad.. Lucky u!
Come on! No one is perfect.
Sometimes I got lost of what is right and wrong. People have different thinking, and different way. One way might be the right way for me, but not exactly right way for the others. Who can decide what is right and wrong? I am really nervous about this.
You too, the thing you said to be mistake is not exactly mistake for the others. So please try to be more positive. Forget some wasteful idea you heard. You must live a happy life.
Good luck!
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