注意すべきこと。。。Be careful
先日知らないカンボジア在住のカンボジア女性にいきなり僕のSkypeアカウントが追加されたという通知がありました。彼女は”全世界の友達がほしい”という状態メッセージを表示しました。僕もそのまま受理しました。で、数日後彼女とチャットしました。なんとカジノで働く人でした。彼女の習慣かもしれませんが、僕の個人情報を一生懸命聞き出しながら、自分が貧しい家庭で生まれて高校さえ卒業できないという話をしました。ちょっとストレートすぎるかわかりませんが、僕は彼女に聞きました。僕：「営業しているの？でも僕はギャンブルが嫌いだ。」
彼女はほかの質問でごまかしていました。そして、用事があると言ってバイバイしました。その日から彼女がオンラインするのを見たことがないです。どう思います？そんなことに気をつけたほうがいいだと思いますけど。。。皆さんが誘惑されることがないと思いますが、万が一のことを備えてあまり人をいきなり信じないほうがいいかもしれませんね。
My Skype's ID was added some days ago. The adder was showing her status as "Want to make friends all over the world". I accepted her request, and 2 or 3 days later I had a chat with her. You know? She was the one who work in slot company (maybe casino?). She ask me alot about my private information, and started to say that she was poor girl from country side and didn't even finish high school and bla bla bla.
I asked her if she was making marketing she didn't reply and tried to ask me more question. I told her "I hate gambling". After that she said she have had to do other works and said good bye to me. Since that time, she has never appeared online again.
I'm not sure if she had ill willing to catch client to her slot company or not, but just want to inform you all that internet (including messenger) is not the safe place and you might be cheated every time. Please be careful. Try to observe the the way people talk to find if he/she has ill intention or not.
posted by hp @ 10/03/2006 11:53:00 pm
17 Comments:
Ohh u ha she got angry u hery wat did u do ha?she is not intensily doing the marketing on but may be wanna get knowing u ning he he.. wat is ur skype id?
If it is as what you said, I must apologize her lah.
Ha~~~~h, I did mistake again.
My skype ID? hpinjapan. Or you can search by my e-mail: himitsubushi[at]gmail[dot]com.
yalah u dont need to be careful but should be pround of urself hahahah coz someone seem like interesting on u hery cheers....
あ～これが進んでいる技術世界の最新問題でしょうな。Oh yeah, I remember once long time ago I got the same experience, but the person added me was a student somewhere. I asked how he got my address, but he didn't answer. So, I just blocked him. It's kinda mean but I don't think I have another choice.
そうですね。悪い人がどこにもいるから、技術を悪用する人がいればそれは避けられませんね。
Maybe I am too careful lah. I must be more open from now.
But you know the reason why I am that careful?
In Japan, there is a kind of fraud called SAGISHOHO(詐欺商法：Fraud or cheating commerce?). The girls who work for that act as a normal girl and try to find a guy to cheat via internet (DE AI KEI site : meeting-up site?) or on the road. She acts ask loving him and they become lovers. After that, she take the guy to shop to buy ring or watch with high price (from some thousands up to some ten thousands USD). There are many victims in japan everyday, and some committed suicide because of huge amount of loan from illegal finacial companies.
Well, I don't mean her such a person and I acknowledge my fault for hurting people and I don't try to explain that I am right too. Just want to inform everyone that there exists such fraud in this world and wish for their caution when believing people.
Well, TOO careful is not good too, because people can't approach you at all.
Anyway, thanks for you all a lot for giving me advice. It made me to reconsider my habit again.
Oh welcome to my blog,Rithy!
Yes, you may be right. I am small. No need to say sorry! But please don't say my sky seems as a pot's cover. It is not good. I do recognize my fault of being TOO careful.
Anyway, Rithy, I do not agree with you in "She's just doing her job, what is bad about it?". It sounds that you mean "never mind the work harm anyone, if she only do her job, nothing bad". If you mean this I may reply that "it is also not bad for me to neglect her because it is my liberty". But if we try to argue for our own good reason, no happy end and I don't think like that, I really feel regret to hurt her.
I understand, she might have no other choice because she need to earn money for living. I can't say that she should do this or that because I have no ability to help her. If I had, I will lead her to better job, working without harming people then she will be absolutely happy too.
Some of us like to take such a verion on life: "You are living happily why don't close your eyes and letting people who are in miserable to do their business though that is not absolutely legal". I don't absolutely neglect this version but just want to see people fight more for their life, not just live a too easy life by harming people. It brought only dispute, hatred and so on. Interest that doesn't come from our effort will come from the others' effort. Why don't we try to understand each other, think the people' feeling? We should live happier.
Well, this is only the ideal imagination. I understand that such society doesn't exist, but if we try to understand each other at least we can make a happier society.
Don't worry, I will reconsider again as I said in last reply.
OK, wish you good luck and happy life.
Talking about DE AI KEI, sometimes the girls on the net have turned out to be GUYs. You hear it on the news everyday that some people even get killed after knowing from the site and then when they agreed to meet, the guy turned out to be so cruel person, who imprisoned the girl and some stories ended when the girl got killed. It's like horror movie.
Yes, I heard. There are many kind of people on net. Internet is absolutely not the safe place, so please make sure we don't believe them easily. If people with good will, he/she will understand us of being careful, I think.
Thanks for sharing this story
Oh, welcome to my blog, Vannak!
Yours is nice.
Hi hp,
Obviously, the majorities of people who like chatting by net always tell other people a lie.
Since I know how to use computer and involve in messenger, I have never been ask simple questions at all, but too personal. Whenever I use online message, I wish to make more new friends, but everything is not going well. We can't become friend, however, they are trying to find lovers. I wish there were some people who prefer to make friends like me by net.
Let's turn to your story. It seems that the girl whom you mentioned about show her high impression on you, by asking your personal informations. Probably, she wanted to be your lover???? I am not quite positive (^-^). Do you agree with what I said??? ( kidding)
Don't think too much about that. If you feel that are guilty, you can send offline message to her, cos you know her e-mail address, right? Don't hesitate, hp. Clear up your mind, and enjoys your life.
Best of luck,
MIchelle
Michelle,
I don't think she want to be my lovers or sth, cuz as you know how can? We have never seen even once.
Anyway, thanks alot for your advice.I will do what should be done. Thanks alot na.
Good luck,
hah... u told me once already. yeah! there are alot of cheaters! be careful everyone! hp, u r lucky! be smart b4 u believe s.1!
Oh, Dee, Thanks a lot.
>>hp: That's what I used to do too hehehhe. Sometimes I don't know what to do, just add someone and talk with them. I think there are many people like that.
Oh KK, did you use to do that too?hahaha, it is ok if you just want to find a friend, no ill willing. But don't ask about their personnal information too much, it is not good.
OK, find friend to have a chat is ok. Make sure we are good friend, don't cheat each other, that's all.
Thanks for the comments!
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